My Back Story

Disclaimer - I'm not a doctor...obvs! So this is all based on my own experience. Don't make important health decisions based on what a blogger tells you. Do the research, talk to your GP and do what feels right for your pain. It's hard to trust your gut instinct when you're in pain but your body is always communicating. This includes walking away if any of the practitioners you use just don't 'feel' right for you.

This has been a post that has been a while in the making and I promise it's not a self-indulgent one. It's driven less by a desire for me to share my personal experience but more by the amount of questions from readers who wondered about my back, what the injury was, how it is now and what remedies and therapies I would recommend to anyone in a similar situation.

So I'll keep this as factual as possible starting with sharing the good news that I'm pretty much pain free right now and not taking any medication.
In terms of what the original injury was, it's nothing unusual. Like most people in their 40's, I have 3 bulging discs in my lower back that might ache now and again but largely don't bother me. But every few years, I have what's called an acute episode where one of the discs bulges enough to touch the sciatic nerve.

I've had a few acute episodes in the past 10 years. There's no specific trigger for me though the first episode can be linked to the twins being 9 months old, at their heaviest and needing lifted constantly. I suspect with everyone's back, it's a combination of factors that brings on an episode and I think poor functional movement has a bigger part to play than occasional exercise like running. But more of that later.

My first response now when I experience the intense pain, is to medicate. Good anti-inflammatories take up to 48 hours to take full effect so you need to start taking them immediately & consistently and be patient. The most important part of back pain is to keep moving and you can't keep moving if you're in excruciating pain. So I don't stress about moving the first day or two beyond what's essential, instead focus on getting the pain under control so you can start moving well in a couple of days.

There's no point in looking for a Chiropractor, Osteopath or Physiotherapist at this early stage. I've learned the hard way on this one, wasting too much money on emergency appointments. There's very little that these practitioners can do for someone suffering with fresh back pain. Better instead to save your money for an appointment once your pain meds have kicked in a bit and you've started moving again.

So once you're moving again, albeit slowly, what's the best therapy approach? I've tried it all but I will qualify that by saying each therapy is hugely dependent on the practitioner so do ask around and get recommendations locally to you.

I have used physio most often and to good effect though my experience is that it's best done when you're over the worst of the injury and pain. The main benefit of Physio is that it will teach you the right exercises and stretches to work on at home which will speed up your recovery. Additionally, most physio practices will have some form of pilates class running in-house and this should form part of your longer term recovery to prevent a reoccurrence. More on Pilates below. For anyone local, my physio of choice (and I've been to a few!) is Advance Physio in Lisburn. I've used Caroline and Tim and they are both excellent.
I used a chiropractor with my first episode back about 9 years ago and the combination of traction and cracking/realignment did seem to help but I'm not a fan of cracking the spine and it started to completely freak me out. I tried a different chiropractor with an episode I had about 4 years ago and it actually worsened my pain so for this reason I haven't been back since. Out of all of the options, this is the one where I feel it's most important to get a really solid recommendation. I have friends who swear by this treatment and for whom the pain relief is almost instant. It's just not for me.

Sports Therapy/Massage
I have found sessions with Paul Prentice, a sports therapist really beneficial. I contacted him via Facebook and he offered to work on my back and legs to see if he could ease out some of my nerve pain. His sports therapy clinic is in Lisburn & the sessions with him were so effective and reinforces my belief that regular massage is one of the best ways to prevent re-occurrance of back pain.
I believe this because for the past 3 years or so, I've had regular deep tissue back massages with a friend Kate Morrow, who has a therapy room called Harmony Holistic Healing, a bit closer to me in East Belfast.
Kate is not a sports therapist like Paul but she specialises in a range of natural therapies like Reflexology, Reiki and Indian Head Massage and we've known each other for many years as we were Neal's Yard consultants together.

It's always been my feeling that this 6-weekly treatment with Kate was key for pushing toxins out of my back and loosening up the muscles, helping to keep another episode at bay. I think it's no coincidence that my last episode was partially triggered because I'd not been to Kate for a number of appointments due to other priorities (the wrong ones as it turned out!).

So I strongly recommend investing in a regular deep tissue massage  of some sort to reduce the chance of back pain episodes. It's a bit of self care that will pay dividends as you get older and it costs less than an emergency physio appointment.

There are so many reasons why pain strikes and I'm a firm believer that although your back might be the only bit of you that's sore, there can be a number of triggers from all over the body, not least, stress and an inability to sit still and self care. I have another friend called Kate Moscato who is a reflexologist and I find a session with her to be so beneficial alongside the physio and massage. Again, quality of therapist is key here so shop around and ask. Generally speaking, I'd say that a beauty salon offering reflexology wouldn't be my first choice. Look for someone who only does reflexology and other natural remedies and if possible, find someone who works from their own home or better still, will come to yours!
I tingle all over from the beginning to the end of my reflexology treatments with Kate, which take place in a dedicated space in her home. She is professional and knowledgeable about the practical application of reflexology but she also has something magical going on in her hands. I don't know how to put it into words. All I can say is that if you want an hour of pure bliss and relaxation, give it a try. It's not going to fix a bad back, I get that but for sciatic issues specifically, it's excellent as Kate can work on the base of the sciatic nerve with some pretty intense pressure point stuff which does help to ease the tension in the nerve.
Mainly, it does wonders for the mind. When you're in acute pain, your mind plays tricks on you, telling you how sore you are, making you feel negative about recovery and if you add in drugs, you can get yourself in a right depressive fog. That's where a reflexology treatment really comes into its own.

Once you're mobile again and particularly when the pain drops to a 3 or 4 (out of 10), exercise really comes into its own. With my episodes, I struggled to shift the last bit of pain until I started exercising. Perhaps it's the flow of blood to the muscles or the psychological effect of participating in exercise again? Whatever it is, it works and there's no doubt it helps prevent future episodes by keeping you strong and mobile.
Weights and circuits/intervals work will build muscle and strength as well as fitness and also are perfect because they give you an all over workout and you can easily opt out of any of the exercises that aggravate your injury.

Reading Material
I was recommended this book by a number of people who read the blog and I did really enjoy it and found it extremely thought provoking. There's definitely lots I wish I had read while I was in the middle of my pain, especially when it was getting me down - I think there's a lot that's psychological when it comes to pain - especially chronic pain. As a book, it has less application for me now I'm pain free so I'd recommend it if you're suffering ongoing pain. It's on the bookshelf for me to re-read if I have another episode.

Back Injection
The most medical of all the things I tried and the one that worked the least! I'm not going to go into too much detail here as this is very much one to discuss with your doctor but for me, I was unlucky enough to be in the 20-30% of people for whom pain relief doesn't happen. 
I opted to pay for my injection as the waiting list is long and I was desperate. I had all the symptoms and reactions that would indicate it had worked (numbness/shooting sensation down the leg etc) and followed the after-treatment guidelines after (no movement/lifting/twisting etc) however, I was still in pain the next day..and the day after and indeed for a number of weeks after that. Not the instant pain relief that 80% of people get but I had to try it. So it ended up being an expensive opportunity to admire some injured professional sportsmen going in for their treatments in the clinic. The coffee and home made scone afterwards were amazing tho!!

Finishing with something that everyone with a back should be doing regularly regardless of whether you have pain or not. I had stopped Pilates for about a year before my most recent episode and I definitely think the lack of a regular pilates class was a contributing factor. It keeps your joints and most importantly, your spine, mobile and active and prevents injury. If you do just one thing on the back of reading this post, make it a Pilates class. Your 80 year old self will thank you.
Incidentally, it was at my most recent pilates class that the physio trained instructor identified a significant functional movement issue with my back. No-one in my gym or in previous pilates classes had spotted this and it's changed significantly how I squat and bend. 
Incidentally, with regard to Pilates, I've tried reformer and mat pilates and personally find the latter is better tolerated by my lower back. Also, if you're local and looking for a recommendation, I have attended Kathryn in Belfast Pilates Studio in Finaghy. I can also highly recommend the classes in Advance Physio in Lisburn. The latter are APPI based - which means they are physio based, the former are Body Control classes. You can research the difference but again, look for recommendations from friends and find somewhere close to you that has a class at a convenient time so that you're more likely to attend regularly.

Like all health challenges, there's no single thing that causes back pain and no single thing that will fix it. I can identify now that my episodes are a combination of poor functional movement, a lack of pilates based exercise & muscle tightness in my hips and legs. There is also a genetic predisposition as is the case with most health issues. My back is long - I'm tall and my height is in my upper body. My mother suffered with similar issues at my age. I've had a twin pregnancy to full term with a c-section which has weakened things. So everyone will have different physical reasons for back pain, that then your poor functional movement will feed off.

I have to accept that I'm prone to these episodes and despite my best efforts, I will probably have more as I get older. But I will remember that I heal each time and the good habits I keep in between episodes will make the healing process happen promptly each time.

I do hope you've found this helpful. Please do ask questions and make suggestions in the comments below. Or feel free to email me on avril@alifetostyle.com

Most of all, to everyone who supported, messaged, listened to my moaning on Instagram stories and gave me wonderful ideas and contacts to help - THANK YOU. I won't really look at the Summer of 2017 too fondly from a health perspective but I'll never forget the kindness shown to me by so many readers.


Disclaimer - I have not been gifted or paid by any of the businesses mentioned above


Cryolipolysis Fat Treatment at Cinch Clinic, Holywood

There's a mouthful for you! Interestingly, my kids came home from school this week with spellings to learn, words that they'll likely never need to use in their life again like Palaeolithic and Mummification and meanwhile, I was struggling to spell Cryolipolysis, thinking that it's probably a word that would be more useful to them in the future.

I digress....what on earth is Cryolipolysis and why am I telling you about it? I'll start by saying, along with many of you, I'm a deep sceptic when it comes to complicated sounding aesthetic cosmetic procedures. I love the idea of a supermodel figure as much as the next woman but I'm not convinced it can be achieved in a salon. However, my scepticism has been tested with this particular treatment. 

Cryolipolysis is an effective TGA and FDA approved non-surgical liposuction procedure, which has been gaining huge popularity among celebrities across the globe. During the procedure, fat cells are cooled (known as fat freezing) to rid a targeted area of unwanted fat for good. It can treat various stubborn areas on your body such as stomach, love handles, back-fat, arms, flanks, inner & outer thighs, bra line and moobs - it's not just for women.

The advantages of Cryolipolysis compared to other fat busting treatments are that it’s one session, results are permanent and it’s effectiveness is clinically proven. You will be able to return to your everyday activities straight after the treatment so there is no downtime involved whatsoever.  


Leopard Coat Perfection & what I've been wearing...

I've been looking for the right leopard coat now for a while. Something that's not too Bet Lynch, not fur and with plenty of black/grey rather than browns. And just last week I found it on eBay!

So I thought I'd do a quick post for you in case you'd like one too as they're old stock from Topshop and likely to sell out soon.
Here's the stock photo that enticed me to look closer at the listing:
To me this is leopard perfection as it's got a touch of a classic leopard but with enough black to make it a bit more modern. I also love that the base colour is a light grey rather than a beige. I've a couple of jumpers that will look fantastic with it. Not to mention my Alpe boots which are the exact same shade of tan!
There was so much love for this coat, it was worn to the launch of Belfast Fashion Week, which runs from 22-25 March...full details on the link. Some fab shows on the schedule - the St Anne's Cathedral ones are going to be amazing.
Faux Leather Skirt (just seen) - Warehouse (this year's version on link)
Grey Cropped Knit - H&M (similar)
Cross Body Bag - Yoshi (sold out in black)

But the best bit of the launch is that I met a gorgeous girl that I've never met in real life before - Rebekah from Lines & Current. Total babe and just the loveliest person. I've featured her stunning jewellery on the blog before. You can see the range on this link.
Before I go, I better show you a couple of recent outfits starting with the first outing for my Christmas gift - an Alice Temperley Leather biker that my husband got me in Dejavu. In LOVE.
Leather Biker Jacket - Alice Temperley via DejaVu
Skirt - M&S (past season)
Boots - Ilse Jacobsen from Sarah Jane Boutique
Black Cashmere Crew Neck - John Lewis
(All purchased by me - apart from the gifted cashmere crew neck)
Grey 'Etoile' Knit - Hush (this years on link...in the sale!)
Denim Shirt - White Company (similar from Topshop)
Boots - John Lewis
(all purchased by me)

Finishing with what I wore to this week's Showcase trade show in Dublin, where I was working my day job, representing Field Day and Field Apothecary Irish candles. 
Top - Sarah Jane Boutique Sale
Boots - Dune London
Top - from a local boutique years ago
(again - both outfits purchased by me)

And there you go - I'm sorry I've not been very active here on the blog....it's the first plate that stops spinning when there are too many on the go...you all know what that's like. But stand by as I've a couple of beauty posts to share as well as another coat post. I'm unstoppable when it comes to coats...as you'll know if you are a long term reader...

Speak soon,


Glow in the Dark Gym Gear (yes, you read that right!)

It's that time of year again when we try to make an effort to move more and what better incentive than some new gym gear? Would it impress you more if I said it’s 'glow in the dark' gym gear?! 
Yes - that's the same me, same moment, same outfit...one picture without a flash and one with!!


The one that got away....

I completely forgot to finish and publish this post back in October. No idea why. I must have had a manic few weeks and thought it had been published. So a few months late, here goes with the bonus that the shoes are in the sale and there are lots of similar jackets from Zara on sale too...
The photos were taken by my photographer friend Jess Lowe. If you're in or around Belfast and you want some great head shots, Jess is your woman. I love working with her and will book her for more photos in 2018. It just elevates blog posts to another level having decent photos that aren't taken by a 9 year old. The best bit? She puts you at ease immediately and just does a great job without faffing about.
I'll start with the jacket, which has featured lots on Instagram since I bought it in October. It's been one of the most useful pieces in my wardrobe - perfect for dressing up jeans and heels on a night out - as I've done here. It may be in-store but it is no longer online. However, I've found a few alternatives on the Zara site (see further down)
Bag - Yoshi (gifted 2015)
The bag is an oldie from Yoshi. They've an amazing sale on at the moment too. This is the Lowry clutch which is a cross body and a clutch, all in one. The most gorgeous soft leather too. It's no longer available in this colour way but the colours change each season. Some of this season's colours are in the sale on this link.

The shoes are my velvet slingbacks from M&S which make me very happy. I'm hoping to wear them more once the weather warms up a little. As I said above, they're in the sale at the moment and come in a blush colourway too. Low stock online but I've seen them in-store in a wider range of sizes.

The jeans were a lucky find on the H&M summer sale rail for £10. Always check out the H&M sale jeans - I've picked up about 3 pairs in the past few seasons for between £5 and £15!
Finishing with the top. Not just any old black top this one - oh no, it's a super stylish thermal one from from Hotsquash. Jenny the owner gifted it to me a few months ago after hearing about my cold office! It's fabulous and long line (perfect for long bodies) and is a brilliant design for those of us less blessed in the bust department.
I particularly love the asymmetrical neckline
Don't the autumn leaves on the street look lovely? To think this was only 3 months ago. Not a leaf on any of those trees at the moment.

Finishing with a few of the Zara alternative jackets that are still available in the sale. Adore them all. I really shouldn't have looked....




December's What I Wore...

First up, panic not - this is not a blog post with 30+ outfits. Short days and unwilling photographers make for infrequent outfit shots at this time of year. I got an iPhone attachment for my tripod though so hopefully I can manage a few more photos myself during 2018.
I share my outfits regularly on Instagram so anyone who follows me there may have seen these already but the algorithm does mean that you've likely missed one or two and I'm told it's useful to have the direct links to items I'm wearing. 
So here goes...starting with one from early December when we had snow and my Christmas jumper had one of its outings...it got worn LOTS in the lead up to the big day and I might still wear in January.
Jumper - Sugarhill from The Bottom Drawer, Portadown (bought)
No longer available in TBD but currently in the sale on the Sugarhill website
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